Saturday, March 26, 2011

Sacred Space

What exactly is sacred space? For me it is an understanding, respect, honor of our homes, resources, habitat, bodies, minds, relationships and belongings. It is a selfless recognition that every aspect of this material world has a unique purpose and place in the bigger picture. It is the relationship we have with these things and how we dance with them in our daily lives. I am thinking about this now because as I look within myself and at those around me this seems to be an area that we all struggle with.

In our current culture we are still learning to step into our own inherent power in a healthy and balanced way. The collective consciousness is changing, growing and expanding. This is evident through the green and organic culture, wanting to learn to be more respectful of Mother Earth and our own sacred vessels. The growth of interest in all things spiritual, learning to better understand how to reconcile our words, thoughts and deeds. It is an evolution in our way of being, our relationship with the Sacred Spaces that we interact with everyday. It is easy to get bogged down with negativity and feeling as though there is little growth unfolding on the material plan. But we create our experience and to be grateful to all we have is just another way of honoring this sacred space we call home.

I have learned to recognize that there are two distinct aspects of my personal energy, the shadow and the light. I see the fiery courageous warrior fighting for truth who has no fear and makes no apology. Then there is the sweet, soft, pure spiritual child that just wants to see the best in everything, to be liked and always create peace and harmony. These energies or sides of ourselves are also referred to as light and shadow. There can not be one without the other, they are inextricably connected and work together to hold the potential of our personal power. Either one by its self has no real strength or endurance but is always yearning to be met with balance from its counterpart. Before we develop awareness of these aspects of ourselves it can feel like we are being whipped around on the end of rope at some ones elses discretion. In all reality that is exactly what is happening, so it behooves us to learn about these energies and how they influence our lives and behaviors.


So this brings me back to the question of sacred space. What is it? From writing this I have learned that one aspect of sacred space is learning to honor all aspects of ourselves, the courageous shadowy warrior and the light inner child always reaching for the divine. All have a place, it is only when we think one is more important than the other that things get out of whack. Fundamentally if we honor the balance of the energies that we hold in every moment we also begin to naturally honor the simple things like respecting someones else's body, home, land, resources, life, choices, or any other number of things. To be a little cheesy, sacred space begins at home.

The analogy of light and shadow not only applies to us as individuals but also is present in the energies of our world as a whole. We have currently been dancing in a cycle that has been heavily influenced by the shadow and the teachings that come from this cycle have been difficult ones. For some time we had forgotten the importance of having respect of the earth and all those that are supported by it. Those that fly, swim, crawl, slither, grow, flow, walk and those that don't move at all. Perhaps as we come to honor ourselves and respect ourselves more we will then learn to honor all of the planets inhabitants. Asking permission to cut from a plants leaves, to take an animals life for our own nourishment or even build on a piece of land. It doesn't seem like a crazy idea to me although admittedly a new one. I see a time in my own life where this is my way of being, my personal practice. I am grateful to all of the teachers that have brought these teachings to me and have been patient has I work with them in my own life.

"We are the Ones we have been waiting for!" Linda Star Wolf

Thursday, March 10, 2011

The Talk


Dear Heart,

Chin up, no pouting. You've got this. Birthing a new way of being in the world isn't going to be easy. Remember what you asked for? Authenticity, clarity, unconditional love? Well, haven't you received each of those in spades? No one said it would be easy and it wouldn't be worth it if it was. Right? So, pull yourself together and keep moving forward with momentum and confidence. Your little girl is all grown up and she is beautiful beyond compare. Unique and divine. Keep giving everything you've got and not an ounce less. What you are looking for isn't found outside of yourself, it all right here on your front stoop. Over flowing and available in all the ways that are important. Your love is yours to give freely with each word, thought and deed. Don't forget the bigger picture even though you can't always see it. I sensed that you needed a few words of encouragement and I hope this helps. I love you and see you completely. Thanks for being the amazing teacher that you are.

Love,
Me

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Distraction in action


Well to say I have been distracted recently would be an understatement of grand proportions, seriously. Maya, or illusion has been in full effect as of recent and it was only this morning that some clarity has finally decided to visit me again. When this happens it feels like I'm having an out of body experience. Why? You may ask, well it comes down to one thing and one thing only. We tried to buy a house that wasn't meant for us. Period.

Sometime when I'm engaged in material world situations like this I can forget to honor the strong communication that Source has for me in each an every moment. There hasn't been a time I can remember that I haven't been totally and completely supported by The Creator through subtle and not so subtle promptings, showing me the path best suited to full cooperation with my personal karma. I just got done trying to argue with the Truth. Funny how I'm tired and a little hung over from the whole experience.

Resistance is a feeling that I have learned generally shows up when we are in conflict with right action. When something in our lives isn't lining up with our true authenticity. When this shows up for me I get very tired, like I could fall asleep any where I may find myself. And for those of you who know me, well....I'm a bit high energy and that doesn't really fit my temperament. This resistance kept cropping up, I would want to fall asleep at parties, at my desk, in the car and at the bank. Very inconvenient to say the least. And possibly offensive to those I'm spend my time with, nothing says I'm interested in what you have to say then dozing off.

I have known for weeks now that the house we put an on offer on wasn't the one for us. Its like getting engaged to the guy that your parents like because he has a good job, he dresses nice and is stable but he is totally boring in ALL the other departments. No freak between the sheets if you know what I mean. So it took us until we were walking down the isle before we realized that this is not the guy, and as your parents look lovingly back at you with such adornment at the high quality amount of settling that you have chosen for your life you turn heel and run screaming in other direction out into the street to meet the freedom that will truly supply you with the grace that was waiting all along.

Is that moment a difficult one? Yes. Did you somehow know you were going to do it just like that all along. Yup. Are you going to have to face the disappointment of your wedding planner, indeed. Nothing matters anymore when you know in your heart that you have chosen the right path. The feeling of joy and gratitude is beyond any fear or resistance to what must occur to come into alignment with Source.

So, I'm back and finally in alignment once again. Sorry for the quiet but when I get into places like that I generally tend to go into a bit of hole and I don't even realize it when its happening. My diet goes in the crapper, I drink too much, I get flaky with commitments and then I get a cold sore. Check, check, check and check. Yay! Maybe one day I will learn to listen and fight for the little voice that is always on my side showing me the way. This quote pretty much sums it up for me: "What is enlightenment? Absolute cooperation with the inevitable." Quote by Anthony Dunella a Jesuit priest. Another few words that come to mind....its always darkest before the dawn.

So all of you out there ignoring your little voice. Quit it. Follow your instincts and have no fear. The world will be waiting with a pat on the back once the right choice has been made. Amen.